Norman and I have been really busy. The big news is “the wedding!” No, it’s not William and Kate. It’s Danny and Shaen! My wonderful son and his beautiful fiancée will tie the knot on the 21st. Maybe it won’t have all the pomp and circumstance associated with the other “royal” wedding, but it will certainly be more important to these proud parents.
Danny waited a long time to find the “special” woman God had for him. And boy, is she special. This is one of those “Ishmael / Isaac” situations. Danny could have found an “Ishmael” bride just so he could get married. But he chose to wait for the woman God had for him. It took a move to another state to find her, but his feet barely hit Missouri soil, and there she was! Shaen is not only everything he wanted in a wife and lifelong companion, she is also every parent’s dream for their child. And she comes with a truly exceptional family as well. A double blessing. (S)
When they were dating, before they became engaged, I was in church one morning. During praise and worship, my mind started to wander (I thought). In my mind’s eye, I “saw” Shaen dressed in a wedding dress. She was so beautiful it brought tears to my eyes. Then I envisioned what I’d say to her and Danny before they married. It was so real and vivid, that I realized later it wasn’t my imagination. It was God confirming that this would be Danny’s wife. Not long after that, they fell in love and got engaged. Isn’t God good?
In my newest book, “Simple Choices,” there’s a scene that takes place at a wedding rehearsal dinner. The words I saw myself saying to Danny and Shaen are written into that scene. In celebration of this upcoming event, I’m giving away three copies of “Simple Choices” when it comes out. Since it hasn’t been released yet, the copies won’t be mailed out until after the 1st of June. So, if you’d like to win a copy, here’s what I’d like you to do.
What’s one piece of advice you’d like to give to Danny and Shaen about marriage? Leave a comment below, and when I get home after the wedding, I’ll pick three winners. (S) I’ll make certain Danny and Shaen read your comments.
The picture I posted with this blog entry is of them walking toward the new house they just bought. Isn’t it precious? It’s as if they’re walking toward their destiny. (S)
Don’t forget about my upcoming quilt contest that’s tied into the release of “Simple Choices!” Go to my Web site and sign up for my newsletter if you want a chance to win “Irises for Grace.” We’ll give the quilt away in July.
More about Norman and I next Monday. We made a decision concerning our insurance needs. If you’re self-employed and looking for insurance coverage, I think you’ll find the information interesting!
God bless and have a wonderful Monday!
Nancy
18 comments:
If you will both keep God first in your marriage, He will create a bond that NOTHING can break. May God bless you, Danny and Shaen, with a lifelong relationship of love and commitment.
donnaeharmon@yahoo.com
Here's my one piece of advice for Danny and Shaen. It is important that you have 3 cords in your marriage. 1) God, 2) Danny, 3) Shaen. When all three are entwined they can not be broken! Remember...Love is Patient, Love is Kind...Blessings!
judyjohn2004@yahoo.com
Communication , communication, communication! Your spouse cannot read your mind. Even if you think you know what the other person is thinking, you are probably wrong. Talk about your issues! Find out what the other person is actually thinking!
Delynn Nelson denipoo@cox.net
Keep God number one 2nd dont let the parentals butt in when not neccarsary I know you are a wonderful mom Nancy But sometimes It happens cause you want the best for your kids if you fight dont go to your parents go to a trusted friend to vent that way parents arent involved trust me been their did that dont want to do that again
Shawnna
There may be times you really just don't like your spouse, times you have to tell yourself "I love him, I love him, I love him (or her)". In those times, don't rehash, to yourself or the other person, all the bad times and mistakes of the past, hone in on the good memories instead. You both will change over time, some change will be good and some won't, but always keep a mental picture of each other as you are right now close to your heart and always try to see the traits you feel in love with in the old, crazy, boring married people you will eventually become.:) Good luck and God bless you both!
Remember God has brought you two together so always put Him first and everything else will fall into place.
dowelljanet@hotmail.com
If you will keep God number 1 in your marriage then everything else will flow in your life just like God has intended it to. No matter what happens in your lives, arguments, etc. never stop praying for each other & never ever turn away from each other or God. Pray always for each other that you will both hear what God has to say to each of you regarding your lives together in your marriage. I wish the best for both of you!!!
I have no advice because I am 32 2/2 and I have never had any luck... I have never been married or anywhere close to it.
Congrats :)
Stacie
Stacie_cantrell@yahoo.com
This is coming from a woman who has been married 38 years. Never go to bed mad! Don't let the sun go down on your wrath. Always let your significant other know how important they are to you and how much you appreciate the little things they do for you. Don't forget to say the "l" word EVERY day (love) and NEVER say the "d" word ever (divorce). Always set aside a date night for just the two of you and turn cell phones off. Keep a sense of humor...my hubby and I always keep each other laughing.;)
dianalflowers@aol.com
My advice is to be eachothers best friend. Friendship with your spouse is a huge blessing!
Jennifer
jmschwindt0306 at gmail dot com
I have seen several christian, blissful marriages end in divorce after ten or so years. Just remember the grass is not always greener on the other side. Not one of those divorcees (happily remarried or not) later said, "I am so glad I got divorced." Every single one said, "I wish I had stuck it out!" They felt the present season in their marriage was too difficult, and they wanted out. They wanted to enjoy their life. They were usually experiencing a semi mid-life crisis at the time. So stick it out even when you are tempted not to. It ALWAYS gets better, and you are certainly glad you did.
Marriage goes through seasons, stay connected and in prayer through them all. Don't nit-pick about small stuff!
melindatoad@gmail.com
Blessings,
Mel
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My advice would be make sure there are three people in the marriage Danny, Shaen and God. The family that prayers together stays together.
The family that prayers together stays together. Make God part of the marriage.
Angela from Kentucky
angelac@mchsi.com
Best advice my mother ever gave me...You can take a man to the altar but you can't altar him.
This is what I leave at every bridal shower. It came from a video series, but I don't remember who.
"It's easy to fall in love, but it takes work to stay in love."
desertrose5173 at gmail dot com
Danny & Shaen - my advice to you is this. First, have a faith based foundation. Remember ALL things are possible with God! Second - really LISTEN to each other. Third - Keep no secrets. And fourth - always have communication - without it and God you have nothing. If you do these things you will have a long and happy marriage. Congratulations!
Keep God first. Always let each other know they are loved with words, notes, song, or gift. If their is ever an argument find resolution together. Remember that your families will always be their if something really tough comes up. An most importantly pray together. May you have a blessed union.
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